Letting Go of Those Who Love Us When Their Love is Poisonous

NOTE:  I channel Sananda. The following downloaded transmission is part of a series that was transcribed during March/April 2017. They will be published here on this blog, in the order in which they were received.

~ Sunflower Mystic

Sananda Speaks:

Here in this moment in time, on this planet, there is a rise of something unforeseen: toxic love.

It is not true love, or the love of all the heavens. It is neither open nor accepting, neither tolerant nor forgiving.

It is a kind of love that is wrapped up in conditions, limitations and determinations. For instance, it looks and sounds like this:

“If you stay home I love and accept you… but not if you bring those friends of yours here.”

“When you behave in a way I like, then I shower you with affection. When you behave otherwise, I shun and scorn you.”

“It doesn’t matter that you are my son or daughter. I only love you if you reflect me, as me, out in the world. If you turn into a person with beliefs or values that are different from mine, forget it.”

“My wife or husband needs to do this or that in order to be lovable and acceptable. I will make them suffer if they don’t fall in line.”

Here is the truth: Love Allows.

Love releases all need placed upon any blood relative or chosen family. Love turns all personal need to God and Divine Supply.

So when love is true, a person who steps outside of your comfort zone may remain still within your heart’s enfolding embrace. With easy and tolerant acceptance, the connection between you shifts as each person grows in their own personal directions.

And yes, distance may be created. And sometimes such distance may be unsurmountable, if only one person loves freely, with a true heart. If one side of the equation is toxic and conditional, the relationship cannot and will not survive.

This is the turn of the times.

As the chaff gets separated from the seed, there is yet suffering. But the rewards are unimaginably nourishing, life-giving and uplifting.

So when a loved one rejects you for being who you are, for exploring and discovering your true self, then be at peace. Accept the grieving that comes, and realize that they cannot come with you.

At least, not yet.

Maybe in time, through your absence in their life and their observance of your journey, they may find their own way towards Love.

But hoping for this is a fool’s journey, as there are many on the planet who are not wired, on the spiritual level, to make such a commitment on the physical plane, or to experience such a spiritual growth spurt.

It may be that for some in your life, their own soul’s journey is one of learning about and understanding what love is not, in order to one day, far in the future and in a different lifetime, understand what Love actually is.

So take heart.

Turn to God-Source-Goddess when the loss looms large, and know that new family is even at this very moment on its way to you, to hold you fast on your own path, to share their lives with you and to grow with you, without constraining you or suffocating you. This is Love.

When new awakened hearts gather together, exchanging words of kindness is the norm. Drama recedes to the far away recesses of a past that will soon seem like a dream.

For you are now awake, and in this state, clearly seeing that God is Love, and All-That-Is around you is infinitely deserving of Love, and all that is within you is just as deserving — in this state of true living you find happiness and joyful bliss.

There is yet grieving, in waves, over time.

But take heart in the bountiful, beautiful delight of becoming your very own true Self in the highest light of your Soul.

You are One with God’s True Love, and All is Well in that Shimmering State of Being.

Be Kind. Be Generous. Be True. And Type Away!

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